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Foot-flirting
Well we have seen it on th silver screen and been itching to do this ever since. Casual brushes of the foot against her leg, while adjusting your position, might just eventually leaad you to loosing your shoes and running your foot up her leg!

"Can't hear you"
If she says something, lean forward as if you aren't hearing her very well, and touch her (arm or back). Then lean back again and answer. Are there any easy clues as to when is the right time to go? The clue is when it's possible (ie, she's within in range)".

The difference between getting and not getting the girl
It is the saving grace of even the otherwise doomed "nice guy" approach. And in some instances, being the "nice guy" together with using can even be quite effective. Here's why: the success of depends on whether the girl perceives you and your touch as a threat to her or not. You can be a rough and tough guy ) and still have the girl feel you are not a threat to her specifically, thus initiating will be easy. A nice guy usually just has an easier time having girls feel he is not a threat to them. Usually though, that is also his undoing, as he is consequently perceived as weak, neutral and non-sexual, all of which are major turn-offs for girls. But here is where the saving grace of steps in. You are safe, so touching and hugging with you is... well, also safe. However, before she knows it - touching and hugging with you moves from feeling pretty good to quite exciting to really electrifying until all that good, safe and friendly physical contact with you is going to make her wonder: "If it feels so good just to touch with him, why on earth not do more? I wonder what that would be like?". Which is not to say that being the "nice guy" is the way to go. This was simply meant to illustrate the strength of kinesthetics - it even works for the "nice guy."So remember - really is the difference between getting and not getting the girl.

The protective gesture
In a crowded bar, if people are walking by and pushing around, put a protective arm around the girl or stand just behind her not quite touching her. This protective gesture will touch her heart!