Guy from yesterday or girl from tomorrow?
Gone are the days when a girl would bend to every
whim and fancy of the guy, and do everything possible
to breathe a life into an almost dead relationship.
Research shows that the trend today is where the guy
is more committed to a relationship and has trouble
letting go of the strings even when it is all over.
He is the first to strike a compromise or offer an
apology, when a fight threatens to overthrow the relationships.
He is the one making incessant calls and found waiting
for hours on an end, under a lone tree on an isolated
road. He is the one accepting his flaws and making
promises of changing himself. He is actually even the
first one of the two to mention the forbidden word.'Marriage'!
And it is the girl who is taking him for a ride. Looks
like women's liberation has taken things a bit too
far! Rubbing shoulders with men is another thing, but
taking leave of the feminine essence is a different
thing altogether. The girls of the modern era boast
of being career oriented and ambitious, yet harbour
secret hopes of marrying a tall dark handsome and definitely
rich dude.
If the homemakers go on a leave, there would be no
place to call home. Instead of amalgamating the sensitive
guy of today and working towards what could definitely
be the most thrilling experience of being in a relation,
the girls have opted to give them a taste of their
own medicine.
Forgetting the concept of fair's fair, the question
to be pondered over is: Is it worth it? Does the renewed,
honest, committed, sensitive guy [all that a girl claims
to be looking for in a guy anyway!] deserve to be discouraged,
by absolutely not called for feminine jibes? |