• "I have done everything I can to make this guy realize I am interested. From batting of my eyelashes to casually brushing a hand over his while laughing over a common joke. he just does not get the message!!" - Mischief_and_more

Dr. Love: Well where actions don't work words do! Maybe he is being blind to your moves because he does not know how to politely refuse, or maybe he just does not perceive your signals the way you want him to! In either case there is just one way to find out, the way with words.

• ".I know she does not love me anymore, and I don't mean to impose on her. But I just cant seem to stop thinking about her! And the thought of her with some other guy drives me over the edge! I know its over but I cant accept it!" - Mr. Nice_guy

Dr. Love: Are you still in touch with her? Through phone calls or common friends? Do you still see her often? Well if the answer is yes. I would suggest that you refrain yourself from doing so. What you need is a complete closure to move on in life. Just obliterate her completely for a couple of months. It would be easier to deal with, when you bump into her at social events. Heartaches have always been the most difficult to handle, but don't get cynical about love just yet.

• "He has been giving me all the right signals. You know that little bit of special attention, and sweet talks. He more than often flirts with me too. I am confused why doesn't he ask me out, then? This has been going on for months now! And I really have no clue as to what to do next!?" - Cutegal

Dr. Love: Ok, Cutegal, looks like you have been bitten by the love bug, and are more smitten than the other person concerned. And if I am not wrong you have been contemplating about a thousand approaches to broach the topic yourself, but have been lacking the courage to do so. Well, how about this: befriend his best friend[if you are not already friends that is] and let him know how you feel about the guy! The message is bound to reach the concerned person!

Facing problems of a similar nature? Need some guidance, some help or merely just someone to talk to? Feel Free to mail in to Dr. Love!